When I was a kid, I was afraid that if the saying was true, “you are what you eat” that I might turn into chips and a bowl of salsa. I was young and impressionable, still eat chips and salsa like someone is trying to steal it from me AND I have yet to turn into chips and salsa. Sometimes, being something so simple might be a good thing.

This brings me to this Library. I do believe that we are what we consume; books, blogs, museums, television, gifs movies, erotica, etc. So that I can create a timeline of what I’m consuming, I am going to use this page and subsequently linked blog posts to round up where my attention has been focused.

My goal as a human:

Share, create, and enjoy life’s amazing experiences.

Hopefully that which I consume in my life’s library will help me accomplish these goals. Here’s some stuff I’d like to share.


Things I read.

The Empathy Diaries – Sherry Turkle (reading)

Connect: Building Exceptional Relationships with Family, Friends, and Colleagues – David Bradford & Carole Robin (reading)

Standing at the Edge: Finding Freedom Where Fear and Courage Meet – Roshi Joan Halifax (complete)

The New New Thing: A Silicon Valley Story – Michael Lewis (complete)

You’re Not Listening – Kate Murphy (complete, TW reference)

Greyboy: Finding Blackness in a White World – Cole Brown (complete, MH)

Wait But Why : The Tail End – Tim Urban (complete)


Things I’ve watched.

TEDTalk : I am not your Asian stereotype – Canwen Xu

TED2009 : A call to reinvent liberal arts education – Liz Coleman


Random things.


Things we don’t talk about.

I support Cindy Gallow and her sex-tech business Make Love Not Porn

I support Erica Moen’s Patreon for Oh Joy Sex Toy and have bought / gifted her books.

I support NudaMag